Minimising legal costs in your family law matter
If you are separating from your spouse, you may experience significant financial impact. Instead of two parties sharing the same household costs, you and your spouse will now have to pay for separate accommodation and will have to fund separate households. Two households will mean more expenses for you.
Besides funds for the additional household costs, you may need the services of a lawyer to represent you to secure a fair share of the assets in the property division or to obtain court orders protecting your child’s interest in parenting disputes.
How can you then minimise your legal costs?
Be calm
Being calm and making rational decisions are easier said than done as it is only normal to be affected emotionally when a dispute arises with the person you have shared your life with. When dealing with separation, it is time to take a deep breath, attend counselling if required for support, and attempt to discuss the property split and children related matters in a calm manner with your former spouse. Rather than jumping straight into the family court, consider alternative dispute resolution as a means to resolve the dispute. This includes seeking the assistance of a mediator to act as an independent third party between you and your spouse. A skilled mediator can help parties focus on the issues at hand to reach a resolution. If you and your spouse can communicate and work through the issues impacting on the separation, you will be able to enter into consent court orders to record the terms of the property split and the parenting arrangements. This will save you loads of money in legal costs in having the dispute litigated in the family court. It is however important to seek legal advice before you enter into negotiations with your former spouse so that you understand your rights and entitlements under the family law.